Law of Attraction Relationships
I’m sure we have all felt that magic when it feels like something is “meant to be.”
That we have attracted that special someone that is the absolute perfect match for us….and it feels great 🙂
So what does the law of attraction have to say about our relationships?
Relationships with our significant other or others, our wider circle of relationships….friends, family, colleagues, and especially about what loa would say is our MOST important relationship….with our self.
Let’s get started with a fantastic video from our favourite law of attraction teachers, Abraham-Hicks talking to someone in the hot seat who has recently found out that her partner has not been faithful.
Law of Attraction Relationships Quotes from Abraham – Hicks
On Esther & Jerry’s Relationship
When (Esther) knew, that she and Jerry where going to be together, when that thought exploded in her mind, she could never step back from it.
And nothing else was logical: She could NOT step back from it!
And when she gave in to the power of that knowing, it was incredible- the circumstances and events that revealed themselves.
And there where a lot of people in Esthers life, who where encouraging her otherwise.
And to each and everyone of them she said…
Go away from me!
In other words, nothing- NOTHING could dissuade her!
And why would that be? Why would, when she got into the vibrational vicinity of that,
why would it feel so powerful and so logical?
Because, they were in each others vibrational escrow!
They have been in each others escrow, before either one of them where born!
They where teachers, intending to live life- enough different life that they would be a good balance for each other,
and every day in both of their lives, they where putting things into vibrational escrow, that each of them matched to.
And neither one of them was in perfect alignment,
but they where close enough in alignment that the logical step- the logical step- the logical step- the logical step…brought the into vibrational vicinity, or proximity of one another.
And even THEN, they where around of each other for about 3 years, before it became CLEAR to Esther, that she was going to have her way with him!
…It was LOGICAL. It was logical, meaning it was compelling.
Meaning, that NOTHING ELSE felt like that.
It was a HELL YES, beyond anything that either of them ever had felt before….and everything can be like that !
We´re not just talking about finding the love of your life,
we´re talking about EVERYTHING.
All creations have those kinds of powerful culmination-points!
Because, ALL CREATION has a vibrational escrow, that is being focused upon by source-energy, and there is a huge calling towards it!
And when you get into the vicinity of it, you feel it.
Most don´t let themselves get into the vicinity of it!
Because you´re keeping that rule, and you´re keeping that rule, and you´r keeping that rule. And you´re doing what that one wants, and what that one wants. And you´re listening over here- and you do not train yourself, to keep yourself in the vibrational vicinity.
But WHEN you train yourself to be in the vibrational vicinity,
THEN things just keep occuring to you.”
On The Sexual Bond in a Relationship
“The sexual bond/desire is a very big one, it is innate within you.
In other words you were born with this powerful desire to continue to evolve.
That sexual desire is right up there, with the desire for water or food.
It is a very inherent desire from within.
We think that what happens sometimes is, that the individual has an incomplete awareness of what they are wanting or allowing.
And by that we mean the sexual desire is a very strong one, something that they think about a lot, something that they like, so something that they do let in.
But often they are not considering the other things that they desire as well.
And so they let the sexual in, before they’ve even identified what they want.
It’s sort of like finding out that the house doesn’t have enough closets after you’ve moved into the house.”
But in the moment it does feel good, so shouldn’t it be something that they should do?
“If someone is having a sexual relationship with another and they are singularly focussed upon how good the sex is, so that they are not offering resistance, then through this relationship all of the things that they have ever said that they want could be allowed.
But they usually don’t do that.
They usually focus on how good the sex is while the sex is happening, and then they focus on how burnt the eggs are when the eggs are burnt, or how unmade the bed is, or how unpleasant the conversation is or what’s wrong with your family.
In other words they focus on all the other aspects.
And so if there are a lot of other aspects that are focal points, that cause resistance, then the relationship is not a stable relationship.
You could be with someone who has 1, by your standard, really positive aspect, in this case let’s say it’s the sexual aspect, and 9 aspects that are really not to your liking.
And if you were singularly focussed on the 1 aspect you liked, so that relative to this relationship, you are for the most part connected to source energy, you would illicit from that other only things that were pleasing to you.
You could have a partner who has 9 things that you really like, sex being one of them and 1 thing that makes you nutty.
And as you focus on that 1 thing that makes you nutty, you will destroy the relationship.”
On Law of Attraction Relationships With Others
“If you’ve got somebody’s aspects in your experience that you don’t like, there’s only one reason they’re there. You keep evoking them with your attention to them.
Without knowing about Law of Attraction, you have — through your old habit of observation — achieved vibrational harmony with the parts of them that you do not like, and you keep summoning those parts from them by your constant vibrational offering of them.
Just love everybody that interacts with you no matter how personally, or how peripherally, involved with you they are.
The efficiency of the people who deal with you… everything is orchestrated by the manager called Law of Attraction. And your vibration is setting all of it into motion. Everything affecting you is a reflection of the vibration that you are emitting.
Spend more time focused upon your dream than upon the reality. The reality gives birth to the dream — but the dream is where you are wanting to put your attention
You have more harmony points with every person on the planet than you have disharmony points, because there is much more of you that is in harmony with your Core than you realize or that most of you allow.
The closer you come to being in harmony with your Source Energy, the more in harmony you are with each other. When you think about other people and what they think of you, do you understand that what they think of you has very little to do with what you are? It has mostly to do with the habits of thought that they have developed. It has more to do with them as thinkers than it does with you as the subject of their thought.
If nothing is more important to you than that you feel good, you can form a fantasy about someone who is in your life and they will begin to modify to meet your fantasy, because Law of Attraction is a very powerful thing.”
On Your Relationship With Yourself
“You are leading edge creators on the leading edge of thought.
And the appreciation, the love, the knowing, that source feels for you is truly beyond physical, verbal description or comprehension.
We don´t expect you to feel what we feel for you, coming through your ears or your brain.
We want you to FEEL it, through your cells, through your skin, through your emotions, through your solar plexus, through your body.
We want you to feel us, rippling through pleasure in the acknowledgement of the perfection – evolving perfection, that is you.
There is nothing that we want you to do, that you are not doing.
But it is our powerful desire that you find a way of loving yourself more today than yesterday, and more tomorrow, than today.
We want you to ACKNOWLEDGE who you are, and make peace with WHERE you are- because there is no comparison that is valid, other than your relationship with your own, new ideas!
Love others in their uniqueness, and try to manage them not at all.
And love yourself in your uniqueness, and try to conform not at all.”