Law of attraction love, well I've certainly got that, much love for the law of attraction :-) But what does the loa have to say about love in general and our love relationships ?
Here is a great video from our favourite law of attraction teachers Abraham-Hicks. The woman in the hotseat has just come on one of the Abraham cruises, was feeling great and then found out her partner had been cheating one her.
"I was feeling awesome about coming on this cruise and then I found out that my partner had been cheating on me for a really long time..."
“Partners allow you to discover what your power of attraction truly is.”
“Your soulmate will give you grief – if he’s really a good soulmate.”
“What you really want is expansion. What you really want is your own clarity. What you really want is an introduction to your own Guidance System. What you really want is self-sufficiency. What you really want is autonomy.”
“You want to be able to stand out there anywhere with anyone. You want to say to anyone, bring it on because my happiness doesn’t depend upon the way you behave. My happiness depends upon my ability to focus.”
"What is unconditional love, anyway? Unconditional love is:
I´m happy- in this moment.
Unconditional love is:
I have the ability to focus in love on my happiness."
"We think that you try to earn something, that is un-earnable.
And if you can accept that it´s un-earnable... ohh, that´s a big one!
If you can accept that the love that you seek is un-earnable - you can´t earn it through your effort or your hard work, but you can line up with it through your absence of resistance - THEN you start discovering:
It´s not magic.
It´s just natural.
You start feeling this natural flow of wellbeing.
And your desire to perform and jump through hoops begins to diminish."
"Unconditional Love is... I love, because that's who I AM. You, in whatever you're living Are not gonna take me From my Unconditional Love Because I am so practised at it. But I've got this. I'm tuned in, tapped in, turned on. I'm SOURCE ENERGY in a physical body and now I am willing and ready To engage with EVERYONE !!!"
"In other words, do you know how many men would flock to you … if they knew that you would allow them to be as they are...?"
"Sexual Energy and Spiritual Energy are identical Energy. When you are tuned in, tapped in, turned on--that's the "turned on". When Source Energy flows through you, it flows through you. You cannot separate one from the other."
"I love the feeling of loving you. And how you feel about me is irrelevant. I love the feeling of loving you."
"Most of you are sort of trained to believe, that you are not supposed to do it for you-but you are!
If you´re not selfish enough to tune to the frequency that feels REALLY GOOD to you-then you don´t have anything to give to anyone."
When we say,THERE IS NOTHING THAT YOU CANNOT BE OR DO OR HAVE, we´re not kidding you, not even a little bit!
Because the power of focus is everything.But what happens is you complicate it by saying:
But there are other people who are the creator of their reality and what if they don‘t want me to be in their reality?
What if I want them to be in my reality, but they don‘t want me ...
in other words -what if I want it,
but they don´t want it? Who wins?
And we say:
"It´s not a matter of any sort of competition.
It´s a matter of YOU, achieving vibrational alignment with what you want - and the universe will deliver it to you, somehow- some way.
We, in the past, have qualified this kind of conversation by saying that if you focus upon the essence of what you want, and you don´t get bogged down in the details, that as the details fill in,they will be more pleasing to you even in the details, that you originally thought that you where reaching for.
But that is unsatisfying to most people.
Because, they think that this is our run-around.
They think, that is our way of just appeasing you, and saying you‘re NOT really gonna get what you want, but you‘re gonna get something that you´ll like pretty good - so just "go after something that you like pretty good, and that will come.."
but that´s not what we´re saying, either!
We are saying to you, that- WHATEVER IT IS! - that you focus upon, MUST COME TO YOU -unless you contradict it, with your own, contradictory focus. End of story !"
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